Before You Say "I Do"

Financial Questions to discuss with your Future Spouse

Financial Histories

  • Who provided the financial support?
  • Which parent managed the finances?
  • What income range best describes the family?
  • Was money plentiful, just enough, or scarce?
  • Were financial problems prevalent?

Financial Goals and Desires

  • What standard of living do you desire to have?
  • How much do you intend to give to the church?
  • Will you help your children with their education?

Obtaining Goals and Desires

  • Who will work?
  • Will it be to each his own, or all for one and one for all?
  • When will you have children?
  • Will one parent stay home with the children?
  • Will you count on an inheritance, or sacrifice and work?

Financial Decision Making

  • Who will decide how much money is allocated?
  • Will it be an individual or team effort?

Guidelines for Spending

  • Will there be any guidelines for spending?
  • Can one spend without the permission of the other?
  • What will be the spending limit for individual decisions?
  • Will you have a waiting period before purchasing items that exceed a set amount?

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